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Sheizaf: Liberal Jews and Israel — A case of split personality disorder

Cross-posted from Promised Land Blog.

Last Saturday I met an Israeli-American friend who came for a short visit from his studies in Europe. We talked some politics, and finally came to an issue which always puzzles me: the fact that American Jews are unwilling — almost unable — to criticize Israel, both in public and in private, and even when Israeli policies contradict their own beliefs. My friend noted that if some of the articles on the Israeli media – and not even the most radical ones – were to be printed in the US and signed by non-Jews, they would be considered by most Jewish readers like an example of dangerous Israel-bashing, sometimes even anti-Semitism.

I’ve became more aware of this issue myself since I started writing this blog. Things I say or write which are well within the public debate in Israel are sometimes viewed as outrageous by American Jewish readers; at the same time, events which would make the same readers furious if they happened in the US – for example, the Israeli municipality which tried to prevent Arabs from dating Jewish girls – are met with indifference.

Naturally, I’m generalizing here. Between millions of Jews you can obviously find all kinds of voices – and this is part of the reason I hesitated before writing this post – but I think one can recognize some sort of mainstream opinion within the Jewish community, which both echoes the official Israeli policies, regardless of the identity of the government in Jerusalem, and at the same time, turns a blind eye on events which might distort the image of Israel which this community holds. And this is something which is hard to understand.


All known data indicates that the vast majority of US Jews support the democratic party, and many consider themselves as liberals (Barack Obama captured 78 percent of the Jewish vote). Yet except for a group of well known activists, you can hardly hear these people criticize Israel, which is not exactly a picture-perfect liberal democracy.

I am not talking here about the old Jewish establishment or about AIPAC. AIPAC are professional politicians. Their status is based on their connections to the Israeli governments, and their ability to promote Israeli interests in Washington. Breaking up with Israel — even just criticizing Israeli politics — will not just hurt their status, it will simply leave them unemployed. Expecting AIPAC or other Jewish leaders with good ties in Jerusalem to declare that, for example, Israel should lift the siege on Gaza, is like asking an insurance lobbyist to speak in the name of the public option.

Naturally, I don’t expect anything from Jewish neo-cons either. These people like Netanyahu, they supported George Bush, and they will go on speaking about culture wars and Islamo-Facists versus Judeo-Christians even on the day Mahmoud Haniya converts to Zionism. You can agree or disagree with them, but at least their views are consistent.

With the Liberals it’s quiet a different story. It’s obvious they care much about Israel, and some of them are very passionate about politics and extremely well-informed about what’s going on here, but from time to time, I get the feeling they hold back some of their views.

I don’t think many liberals, if they really are ones, can accept the siege on Gaza. Even if they think that Hamas is to blame for the current state of affairs, surly they don’t support collective punishment against 1.5 million people, do they? What would they say if the US was to seal the areas in Iraq, Afghanistan or Pakistan where the insurgents are hiding, not letting even basic supply in or out, preventing civilians from growing food or working, and practically leaving the entire population on the brink of starvation? I presume many Americans will oppose such policies.

But let’s leave geo-politics aside, and talk about the current wave of anti-Arab legislation in Israel. There are things happening here on a daily basis which would make most American Jews go out of their minds if they occurred to Afro-Americans in Alabama or to Native-Americans in Oklahoma, rather than to Arabs in the Galilee. Take for example the temporary order preventing Arab citizens who marry none-Israelis to live with their partners and children here, or the new legislation which will make it legal for Jewish neighborhoods and settlements to refuse to accept Arabs. Is this something Americans – not just liberals – would tolerate? I’m not even talking here about the de-facto discrimination of Arabs, but on a legal effort to introduce ethnic segregation in Israel. Isn’t that the same issue Jews fought against throughout our entire history? Weren’t American Jews an important part of the civil right movement? What’s the difference between Blacks in Birmingham and Arabs in Katzir?

I guess that part of the reason for not criticizing Israel is that many Jews are extremely sensitive to the existential threat Israelis sense, so they don’t like to speak against security measures taken by Israel, since it’s not them who would be hurt when these measures are lifted. This is understandable, but many of the problems the Arab minority faces has nothing to do with national security, but with the desire of many in the Israeli public – and their elected officials in the Knesset – to make Israel not just a Jewish state, but a state for Jews, and Jews only. It’s not about terror, just racism.


Given the sense of shared history and even close family ties between the two communities, there is something very natural with the American-Jewish community’s desire to take side with Israelis in what seems as its conflict with the Arab world. I guess taking sides also means avoiding looking at some of the faults of your partner. But the problem with the Jews’ attitude towards Israel is much deeper than that, and it shows the most on issues which have nothing to do with the Arab-Israeli conflict, and are purely an internal matter of the Jewish people.

Here is an example: as we all know, the Orthodox Jewish establishment has an official statues in Israel (unlike most Western countries, state and religion are not separated here, and the chief Orthodox Rabbi has a position similar to this of a supreme court justice). The same Orthodox establishment is very hostile to non-Orthodox Jews, which happen to make most of the American Jewish community. A few weeks ago, Fifth-year medical student Nofrat Frenkel was arrested for wearing a talit at the Kotel. I expected all hell to break in the States. After all, this concerns Jews’ right to practice their faith in the most holy place in the world. I wouldn’t say the event went unnoticed – I saw some blog posts and articles referring to the incident, and Forward published Frenkel’s account of the day – but it certainly wasn’t enough for people in Israel to notice. If American Jews spoke on this matter, it was with a voice that nobody heard.

Now imagine the public outrage if Frenkel was arrested anywhere else in the world for wearing in talit.For some reason, many Jews accept the fact that only in Israel – the same country which asks for their political and financial support – they are seen almost as Goyim. Very few of these Jews will admit that Israel is simply not a very tolerant place, to say the least.

What followed the incident in the Kotel was even more interesting: speaking at a convention of the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism, the Israeli ambassador to Washington Michael Oren said that Frenkel was not arrested but just “led away” by police from the area after offending some people’s feelings there. This was simply not true – she did get arrested – and two weeks later Oren admitted to this fact and claimed he was given “incomplete information” from Jerusalem(even though the fact of Frenkel’s arrest was widely known and never disputed, both in Israel and in the US). Yet even then the ambassador didn’t provide any explanation for the arrest itself, and nobody seemed to demand it from him anymore. More importantly, if there was some discomfort felt in the Jewish community regarding the way ambassador Oren handled the whole affair, it failed again to reach the Israeli media or the Israeli public.


About ten years ago I worked in one of these programs which bring American youth to Israel. It was a fairly good one: unlike the Taglit-Birthright tours, which last 10 days, we spent 5 weeks on the road, holding seminars and visiting places from Eilat in the south to Mt. Hermon in the north. But as far as politics and history goes, it was elementary school level, with the whole program avoiding any issue that might seem too complex or controversial.

Sometimes I feel that with regards to Israel, the entire Jewish community never got off the Taglit bus. Jews are almost desperate to hold on to some sort of a naïve image of this country, its people and its institutions. This is most evident with the way they see the IDF. It’s not just that they don’t believe what the Palestinians are saying – they can’t even imagine the Israeli army doing bad things. The US army – yes; the IDF – never.

What’s understandable for 16 years old kids is becoming absurd when intelligent, powerful and influential grown-ups are concerned. What is it that makes people think that the Israelis enlisting to join the IDF paratroops are any different than their own Marines during the Vietnam War, or from Blackwater operators today? You get better and worse people everywhere, so we shouldn’t fool ourselves – the Israeli army is a perfectly normal one, able of heroic acts as well as atrocities.

As I said, this whole approach never seizes to puzzle me. I was always fascinated by American history and culture – to the point of obsession – and I admire the role Jews played in it. But something in the current Jewish politics and ideas regarding Israel don’t fit the long tradition of fighting for civil liberties, freedom and tolerance by this community, both at home and around the world.

More than ever, I wonder what role this naïve image of Israel – almost an abstract Israel, which has nothing to do with the actual Middle Eastern country – plays in the way Jews see themselves, and how are they going to look back on it ten or twenty years from now.

  1. Brian O
    January 6, 2010 at 17:29

    How come u always seem to have such a problem with the word STATUS? Did someone erect a statue of u that u didn’t like?

    • January 6, 2010 at 19:54

      A rather unpleasant way to point out a typo.

  2. January 7, 2010 at 18:37

    Actually this might all not sound like the proto-type for a new generation of a democratic state, all the things which are said about Israel. (Was it Mr Sheizaf or was it written by you, Mr Remez?)
    And I guess, people who feel sympathetically towards what Israel is doing may be called loving their country – or at least trying to do so. Perhaps the mistake is made when those people add to their titles the “liberal” application. I don’t think anyone can somehow really be called liberal because I suppose that in each case someone can show up with an argument against this person’s “liberal status”, with any argument which in his eyes contradicts it.
    What is “liberal”? These Americans – or many Jewish Germans, or German Jews, or Russian Jews (by the way “Jewish Russians” as well) – apply double standarts.
    What does this show us? That, although not under the best conditions and not with the purest consciousness, but “am Israel chai”. This shows that these Americans are rathe rmore Jews than they perhaps think. In my opinion, it’s rather important for those Jews to fix their identification in Israel (especially in the U.S.), to clarify first who they rather belong too and who they support – and who they really are. And only afterwards look at the mistakes of Israel and start critisizing. To guarantee that this critics will be constructive and not the otehr way around. There have been enough examples of Jews who instead of benefitting the Jewish people only harmed Israel’s and Jewish reputation in general and details. Because they started with the critics before drawing the conclusion that Israel is what matters to them. If I love a person, I do not start to push him/her around for something even if I mean it well. The background will always be love and as such it will be expressed.
    It’s not much a loss for Israel, I think, practically speaking, that American Jews apply double standarts here. If we would be put in front of the decision whether Amer. Jews should assimilate or close their eyes, what would we say?
    What would you say?
    Time ago, I’d choose the first, as to say “The best to stay, the rest to leave”.
    Sounds heroic and does not work out.
    So rather the second, if you know what I mean.

    In any case, neither the critics nor the wannabe-love does help Israel to solve its political and otehr problems.

    (What disturbs me, is the world communities “brave” interference into foreign affairs while playing the righteous.
    Being righteous and playing righteous, there’s a difference in it. And talking about the criminal siege of Israeli army without mentioning all details and sources for the so-called “criminality”, does this seem so…such a pure way to behave?

    Well, whatever, this is another topic now.)


    • January 7, 2010 at 18:38

      Well, again, its not “loving the country”. The motivation is, the action is not. It’s a failing attempt.

    • January 7, 2010 at 18:51

      Written By Noam Sheizaf. You might want to check the clear reference at the top before asking a question, especially one that appears to insinuate something.

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